At some point in life,
many couples wonder and ask themselves, “What is the average amount of sex that
other couples are having?” And though
the answer is not perfectly clear, sex therapists have said many things about
this very topic. Here is what they say, as well as some additional tips to help
you get your sex life on track!
Couples who constantly
"Netflix and chill " aren't necessarily happier. In fact, having sex
once a week is just about perfect. That's the takeaway from a new study, based
on surveys of more than 30,000 Americans gathered over 40 years, published in
the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science.
Sex is important for so
many reasons, both physical and emotional. You may have heard that sex releases
oxytocin, the "cuddle hormone," which makes you feel lovey-dovey and
improves your bond with your partner—but there are many other health benefits
you may not be aware of. Here are 9 reasons you should be having more sex.
1. You get sick less
often. Having sex once or twice a week raises your levels of immunoglobulins,
an antibody that helps your body fight off infection from bacteria and viruses.
Regular sex can improve your immune system by 30 percent.
2. It's more exciting
than a treadmill. Sex burns 3 – 4 calories a minute, compared with about 1.5 if
you're just sitting there, and orgasms produce the amphetamine-like chemical
phenylethylamine, a natural appetite suppressant.
3. You'll have improved
self-esteem. Sex releases endorphins, which produce an overall feel-good
sensation—that's part of what makes you feel calm and secure after sex. Feeling
good in the bedroom can translate to other areas of your life.
4. It's better than
Aspirin. In addition to endorphins, sex releases corticosteroids, both of which
are natural pain-relievers that can soothe headaches, period cramps and back
pain. Of course, your partner will be sure to remind you of this reason the
next time you try to use a headache as an excuse NOT to have sex.
5. It helps you sleep
better. The oxytocin that is released during orgasm also promotes sleep—which
may explain why your guy goes from 60 to zero in about five seconds after a romp.
6. It relieves stress
and reduces depression. You may not feel like getting down and dirty after a
difficult day at work, but sex can actually help reduce stress. Studies have
shown that after having sex with a partner, men had lower levels of stress
hormone cortisol, lower blood pressure and reported being in a better mood.
7. It improves your
sense of smell. After you orgasm, your body produces prolactin, a hormone that
makes you feel sexually satisfied. But prolactin also activates the olfactory
bulb, the part of the brain that controls your sense of smell—the association
between being sexually satisfied and breathing in the scent of your partner may
increase your partner bond.
8. It makes you look
younger and fit. Sex raises your estrogen levels, which makes your hair shiny and your
skin glow. In fact, regular sex may actually slow aging, according to
researcher David Weeks, author of Secrets Of The Super young.
9. Increase relationship. Not only on couple relationship. Those who maintaining weekly sex life are more friendly and easy going with colleagues and friends.
10. More confidence. A healthy couple with happier sex life are normally more success in their career and family.








